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Stubborn Children How do you get children to cooperate rebels? I work in a kindergarten class for children with disabilities and emotional problems. The student one in particular that I'm working with can be very stubborn. We used a clipboard behavior modification with him (he stickers when he behaves and when he was 12 years old, he manages to do something fun like music, art or books). The clip board worked for almost a week, but these days it has not worked at all. It does not seem interested in more. He said he did not want the reward. There are some principles of reinforcement. These principles are: Give students the choice to let him feel that he has some control. I work with a blind / autistic child who is very stubborn. before I started working with her, I thought I knew many people who were stubborn. However, it is like all the others combined. it just surprised me a few days. However, I put up a reward system that seems to work with it. love the cards. shes playing with them. most days there is nothing she will not do for a map. However, there are days that the cards do not work. the key is staying one step ahead of them and keeping the new rewards. no child will work all year or even two weeks in a row for the same reward. talk to the child and ask them what they would like as a reward. we listen to music, talking to the principle of telling him what a good day to have it, we eat snacks, nothing. Sometimes it takes creativity. By age of the child, giving reasons can help, then do not choose. Example. we have to do these things, in what order you want to do today? sometimes give him what he wants. Children and adolescents are terribly misunderstood, and if you compromise, you get what you want, just maybe not as fast. parents need to learn, Gish Try "reverse" psychology in their desire to do something. If it seems that his idea or he seems to be in control of decision-making process, it is more likely to join. So why do you think of the sticker / token system that you stopped working? It might be easier to start with something that was working and fix it instead of starting over. Posted on June 7, 2010.
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